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The bedroom looked like that

TW: Sex work, sexuality, drugs.

I never talk in detail about my clients in my writing I do on this website because their anonymity is important for me and I care so much about them. Therefore, in this story, there will be no way of identifying the man or the woman and that I will even modify some details to assure this. This is the story of my weirdest booking in four years of sex work.

This took place when I was still working in an agency in Montreal. I received a text from the booker telling me that a…


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Unicorn Hunting Done Right: Why Couples Should Hire Sex Workers

There is a phenomenon on dating apps called the unicorn hunting, or heterosexual couples looking for a bisexual woman to join occasionally their bedroom and spice things up. There is absolutely nothing wrong with the fantasy but how it translates into real life is where ethical issues arise. You see, when a bisexual woman receives more propositions for spicing things up in a couple’s bedroom (usually with the woman being the spokesperson) than messages from singles really looking for an actual connection with them, it makes them feel more objectified than desired. For some bisexual women, this fantasy of joining…


CW: I’m using women and men to identify the genders of my clientele as my trans and non-binary clientele have different considerations and issues than written below. I am therefore talking about cis-men and cis-women in this text but it doesn’t mean I am forgetting about my queer folks, I am just not talking about you in this writing

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I’ve been lucky enough to have a few women clients during my career as a sex worker in Montreal. It’s quite a privilege because, as you would guess, women are quite rare clients in the sex work industry. Usually, if we…


Sex work criminalization is highly misogynistic

TW: abuse, sex work, glass ceiling, sex trafficking, patriarchy, bad english haha

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Being banned from crossing borders because your face is recognized is not protecting anyone from sex trafficking. Being stigmatized in public space because someone recognized you from Pornhub and being denied jobs because of that is not protecting anyone from sex trafficking. Being cut from family pictures because you’ve been outed as a sex worker doesn’t protect anyone from sex trafficking. Being unable to call 911 after being assaulted is not protecting anyone from sex trafficking.

Stop believing what politicians are telling you about sex trafficking and sex…


How I Became a Sex Worker

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TW: mention of the word r*pe, sex work, child sexuality, BDSM, kinks.

The first time I showed my genitals to other humans in exchange of goods was at age 4. I was extremely excited about discovering my body and wanted to show it to my kindergarten friends. I ask them to come with me in a corner of the room and pull my pants in front of me to give them a less than satisfying look at what they were hiding. Of course, our laughter attracted the attention of other kids that wanted to be part of the fun. I…

Rosie Sparkles

Feminist sex worker based in Montreal. Writes about sex work, sexuality and related subjects.

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